“The one who loves the most will live the most.” -Ernest Holmes
We all face situations that seem bigger than us. In our work, play, or family life it is inevitable that we will encounter a challenge that will make us question our ability to make it through. While it may seem scary, there is reason to be hopeful.
Underneath everything we do there is a desire to be happy. Whether we are surfing, painting, or going to work, there is always a desire to feel better and live better than we are living now. This desire comes from deep in our hearts.
Within us there is a metronome that holds steady the rhythm of life. Our hearts do more than pump blood through our body. They also contain valuable intelligence that will guide us to greater expressions of who we are. It is our job to tune in to what our heart is telling us. Doing so allows us to tap into a broader vision, and gain a higher perspective.
The power of the heart is the ability to see past the current conditions and ideas that surround us. The heart, the center of our courage, connects us to everyone and everything. This connection is the key to moving forward when our rational mind can no longer see the way. It is our connections, seen and unseen, that fortify and propel us forward, no matter what challenge we might be facing.
I have been working with a young man who is going through chemotherapy. On the outside, the effects of the treatment are visible. On the inside, nothing has changed with him. This young man has courage that surpasses his age. He boldly steps forward, completing his assignments. In spite of anything he is going through medically, he is as curious as ever, undeterred by the illness he is experiencing.
When I work with people who are facing great challenges, it is me that is blessed. As I hold a space for someone else, my heart naturally awakens and I remember why I am here. I am reminded that love is my purpose. I also find it is easy to feel the sacredness, and the eternal nature, of life. I am amazed at how good I feel when our sessions end because my heart is nourished by the experience.
Working with others serves as a great reminder that we are bigger and more powerful than we often think. As we give our best, we automatically receive the gifts that those we are serving have to offer. It works whether they are aware of it or not. Perhaps this is why many religious traditions note that giving is the fastest way to receive.
If you are facing a difficult situation, big or small, take heart. There are always forces at work, often outside of your current perception, that are pulling for you. If you will take some time to listen to your heart, and do the things that foster your connection with life, you will find that you are more powerful than you may have believed yourself to be. By doing so, you will inspire others to do the same.
Edward Biagiotti is the Inclusion Specialist for Culver City Unified School District. He is also co-host of the popular radio show, Funniest Thing! with Darrell and Ed, to find out more go to www.DarrellandEd.com.
